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A New Story at the Library: Assistive Devices Now Welcome!

By Cheryl Weiss

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Photo of the Rochester Hills Library Used Book Sale Room. Photo from http://www.rhpl.org

Wow, what a week it has been!  Since I first posted the story about my experience at the Rochester Hills Library Used Book Sale, it has been read over 1,100 times by people all over the world, including Australia, India, Norway, Japan, France, the UK, Canada, Bulgaria, Germany, Israel, New Zealand, Denmark, South Korea, Brazil, and across the United States.   Many people shared this on Facebook, posted responses, and sent me messages with suggestions, words of support, which I very deeply appreciate, as well as a few not so kind comments. I have read through all of it, and thought about everyone’s feedback as I made phone calls, continued to research, and wrote this post.

So what happened?  Have there been any changes?  Did I contact the ADA?  The ACLU?  An attorney?  Yes, no, no, and no.

As I shared on Facebook, what I wanted from all this was to make sure what I experienced at the book sale would not happen to anyone else, especially someone who is not willing or able to speak up for what they need. I wanted change.  I wanted people with disabilities to be respected, not treated like a helpless second class citizen.  Or, as I was referred to, “people like you…”  People like me, and people like each of us should be welcomed to all public places, and treated with respect, regardless of our disabilities.  Even on the last day of a used book sale.  Even then.  That’s how modern society is supposed to work, and fortunately in most places, that’s how it does work.

Part of the research I felt I needed to do was first, find out if the ban on wheelchairs, walkers, scooters, and carts was in fact a safety issue.  Did those items violate codes for fire safety?  No, they did not.  The room is large enough to accommodate them, especially with the wide aisles and open space.  So the rationale of not allowing cluttered aisles with our assorted devices was not a valid one, especially since I was the only person at the sale at that time with any sort of adaptive device.

Next was the ADA issue.  Many of you reading this blog do not know me well, but I’m the kind of person who would much rather solve problems easily and quietly than create a ton of drama around a situation.  However, once a situation I feel is wrong has started, I will finish it and see it through to the end. I was pretty sure that banning walkers, wheelchairs, scooters, and other items people with disabilities need was a violation of the American Disabilities Act, and I was hoping that initially Library Director Christine Hage would say of course they are allowed; when I was told that none of these items were not allowed at the sale on Sunday, that was a mistake and everyone is welcome, regardless of physical abilities or disabilities, even on the last day of the sale.  As you already know, that did not happen when I spoke to her on the phone on Monday.  Contacting the ADA and/or the ACLU  regarding this situation would definitely have accomplished my goals, I am sure, but I hesitated, still hoping this could be resolved among those of us already involved.  In a way, it almost felt like going to the ADA or ACLU was like tattling on an elementary school child being mean to another child.  I could do that, and she would be told to change her policy, but wouldn’t it be better if she could make that decision on her own?  So, I held off on contacting them to see how this would unfold.

I had absolutely no intention of contacting a lawyer.  I was angry, absolutely, but there was truly nothing I could sue for, nor do I want or need that kind of stress in my life!  I did not want anything personally except to fix this for the people who are in the same situation next time.  I didn’t want anyone else to go to the Rochester Hills Friends of the Library Used Book Sale, excited to pick out a bag or two of books, only to be turned away at the door because they have a walker, a cart, or a wheelchair.  And yes, the volunteers are willing to bring people with disabilities a selection of books to look through.   For some people, it might be great to have people shop for them. If my grandmother was still alive, she probably would have loved that!  She was more than happy to let us shop for her and bring her books and other things we thought she might like.   For me, however,  that was not a reasonable or acceptable accommodation. I am an independent woman.  I love to browse, and I hate asking people for help with anything I can do myself. The whole point of going to a used book sale is to browse through the books, finding treasures I didn’t even know I was looking for. I did not accept that accommodation of a volunteer to shop for me then, and I would not accept that accommodation now.   So for me, there are other used book sales going on this weekend, and others coming up this month; I can get all the books I need and want.  I just wanted to turn a bad situation into something positive.  Well, there was one thing I was hoping for…an apology would have been nice, but I guess that is too much to ask.

So, what happened?

On Wednesday, Police Chief Schettenhelm called me to and shared some highlights of his discussion with Christine Hage regarding this issue.  “We can’t roll back time, but we can make things easier for the future,” he said.  According to Schettenhelm, Hage said that they wanted me to shop and felt they had made some measures of accommodation that were not acceptable to me.  In any case, he said that wheelchairs, walkers, and scooters ARE welcome at all times all over the library!  However, Hage reached a different decision on items used as a medical device that are technically not medical devices, such as my cart.  That is still not permitted.

I wanted to speak with Hage directly, to hear the policy from her, rather than just reporting what Schettenhelm shared that Hage said, and it took a number of tries to get her on the phone.  Finally, Thursday afternoon, I spoke to another staff member at the library, explained that I was trying to reach Hage before I publish this blog post, and was hoping to speak to her first, but she has not been answering the phone at her desk.  She suggested that I try calling Hage’s cell phone, which I did, and she answered.  I asked her if it is true that people are now allowed to go into the used book sale with wheelchairs, walkers, and scooters.  She said, “It has always been our policy that people may use their own, or the library’s free walkers, wheelchairs, or electric carts.  The library is and has always been fully accessible to people with disabilities.The restriction is that one may not bring a shopping cart, stroller or wagon type device in the book sale.  That is not a device for the handicapped.  We provide people to carry things for you.”

Putting aside the shopping cart issue momentarily, I pressed for absolute confirmation.  “So even on the last day of the sale, if people come with walkers, wheelchairs, and scooters, they will be allowed inside to shop?” I asked.  “Any day, any sale, anywhere in that building, canes, walkers, electric scooters, and wheelchairs are allowed, ” she confirmed.  Then she added, “Well, when the aisles are congested, there may not be enough room.  If the room gets over crowded, we will bring a box of books to you, ” she said.

Hmmmm.  So they ARE allowed, even on the last day of the sale!  That’s the change I was hoping for!

Unless it’s too crowded.

I should have asked more about that.  I wonder what happens if, for example, three people arrive on the last day of the sale when the sale opens with wheelchairs, walkers, or scooters, along with a dozen able-bodied people.  They all go browsing as more and more people enter.  As it gets crowded, are the people with disabilities who were there first asked to leave and have volunteers select books for them?  Or once they are in, do they get to stay in as long as they want?  What if more people with wheelchairs arrive?  Will they have the option of waiting until it’s less crowded, or having someone select books for them?  If it’s too crowded, should there be a line for everyone to wait until some people leave, then some more can enter?  I guess we’ll find out at the next used book sale.  The last day of that sale is January 31, 2016.

Next, the “shopping cart” issue.  I understand that my cart is not a recognized medical device for the disabled.  It is, however, a device that helps me to manage with my health-related disabilities.  I cannot carry a stack of books when I have a lot of back pain and breathing trouble.  Using the cart to hold my books (and using that same cart to shop at farmer’s markets, and other similar places) helps me to shop independently. It’s also a lot easier to walk and stand when I have a cart to hold on to when my back pain is bad.  I don’t think anyone wants to be dependent on others; I certainly don’t!  I have brought this cart, or another one I have similar to it, to many places, including a number of book sales in the area.  No one has ever complained….until I went to the Rochester Hills Used Book Sale.  Because it is not technically a medical device, it is not covered by ADA, from what I understand.  Hage cannot be forced to allow me to use it, even though in the spirit of the law, it would be nice if she did.  You can’t regulate nice, though, and in this world, some people simply are not nice, kind, and compassionate.  I choose to spend time with people who are, and I choose to shop where people are, however.

As Hage originally suggested to me, I will shop with my cart at used book sales where I am welcome, such as Oak Park, and the other local libraries.  Actually, the only one I know of where I am not welcome is Rochester Hills, so I have lots to choose from!  The Rochester Hills Friends of the Library’s next sale is January 27-31, 2016, and quite a few people have discussed going on Facebook, and bringing family members and friends who use wheelchairs and walkers, to see if they are truly allowed to enter and shop on their own. If you do, please let me know how it goes!  I’ll be very interested in hearing if this is truly a new story…or just a story.

Happy Reading, Happy Autumn, and Happy Weekend!

CONTEST WINNER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AND THE WINNER IS………………………………………………

Congratulations to Larry Melton, winner of the March Oak Park Connections contest!!!  He will receive a copy of THE HILL THAT GREW children’s picture book by Esther K. Meeks, about the hill in the park!!

THE CONTEST WAS EXTENDED DUE TO THE HOLIDAYS THIS TIME

I had planned to announce the winner on Monday, April 6, 2015, but at the end of last week, a few people emailed me to ask if I would consider extending the contest because they were super busy with preparations for the holidays (Passover and Easter), and wanted to enter, but needed more time.  As I was involved in more holiday preparations myself than I had planned, I totally understood, and I did not draw the winner until today.

SECOND CHANCE CONTEST THROUGH APRIL – DON’T MISS IT!!!!

If you are disappointed because you did not win, guess what?!?!   You have a SECOND CHANCE!!!  🙂  🙂  🙂  Yes, I have purchased another copy of THE HILL THAT GREW, so keep sending in your memories through the end of April 2015!  🙂  I will draw one person’s submission (random drawing again) on May 1, 2015.  Please send them to oakparkconnections@gmail.com and include a statement giving your permission to publish your entry on this blog.

MORE TO COME – KEEP READING, SUBSCRIBING, AND FOLLOWING!

I have more contests planned, and more activities planned for this year, hopefully you will love it and want to be an active part of our community here!  If you haven’t subscribed to this blog or if you aren’t following it yet, please do!  That will guarantee you are notified when there is a new post on the blog, and you won’t miss anything.  Now that the holidays are over, I will return to posting 2-3 times a week (sometimes more!)

Sunday Art Event!

What are you doing this afternoon?  Want to join with others in Oak Park and be creative?  There is a FREE activity from 2-4 pm at the Jewish Community Center, and it is open to everyone!  You do not need to be a member of the JCC to attend – just send an email to the Oak Park Arts and Cultural Commission at the address on the flyer below.  Create your own abstract art, learn about Peit Mondrian, and spend a couple hours with some great people! 

This is just one of many fun art activities planned for this spring – I had no idea that so much goes on for the community in our city all the time until recently.  There is another free art activity in a couple weeks, and more in April and May….more to come on that later!

Oak Park School District Shines on MLK Day

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I attended the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. celebration on January 19, 2015.  I was delighted and amazed at the talent, poise, and confidence the students of Oak Park displayed throughout the program.  From the tiniest little dancers to the high school musicians to the staff performing along with their students, it was an event I am still thinking about nearly two months later.  Our students are a treasure; they really are.  Unfortunately, too often events like this one do not make the news.  That’s one of the things I want to do differently with this blog.  I want to shine a spotlight on our kids, on all the wonderful things happening in the Oak Park School District thanks to the hard work of their teachers, the administration, and the families in the district.  We don’t hear enough about that.  We don’t see enough of that.  And it’s time to change that.  Together.  Let’s look for the good stories all around us.  Let’s share them with each other.  Let’s celebrate Oak Park!

(A version of this was originally published in the oaklancounty115.com)

“What you celebrate, you attract, “declared Nic South, principal of the Oak Park Preparatory Academy, at the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. celebration on January 19, 2015. Students, parents, staff members, administrators, elected officials, and community members gathered to not only honor Dr. King, but to reflect on what each person can do, individually and collectively, to keep Dr King’s work alive and growing stronger.

A PROGRAM THAT JOINED EVERYONE TOGETHER
The program began with everyone joining together to sing the Star Spangled Banner and “Lift Every Voice and Sing”. Then, the combined elementary school choir sang “Free At Last”. The big smiles on the little children’s faces, the hand motions along with their voices, and their increased energy when singing the chorus was heartwarming.

HONOR THE MEMORY OF DR. KING BY VOTING

Marian McClellan, mayor of Oak Park, spoke about the importance of each person voting. “To honor the memory of Martin Luther King, promise yourself to register to vote…your voice needs to be heard.” She reminded the audience that although it is easy to think our vote does not matter, it does. From funding physical education classes in schools to helping parents find jobs to supporting grandparents with their needs, election results have an impact on our daily lives. “We need to elect people who care about what we care about. If you’re not at the table when it’s time to vote, you are on the menu, ” McClellan stated.

VOICES OF INSPIRATION
The Oak Park Voices of Inspiration, comprised of talented students from the Oak Park Preparatory Institute and the Oak Park Freshman Institute, sang “You Gotta Be” and “Yes You Can”, affirming the theme of each person doing their part to contribute to keeping Dr. King’s alive and growing.

“TODAY IS ALL ABOUT SERVICE”

State Representative Robert Wittenberg addressed the audience, saying, “Today is all about service, to each other and to the community. To do better and to be better, to make our community a better place.” He was raised to volunteer, and he continues to volunteer today for organizations in the area, making a difference and doing his part. He shared that Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. inspired him to follow a career in service, and to work hard for his goals. When Wittenberg decided to run for State Representative, many people tried to discourage him, saying he was too young and did not have enough experience yet. However, he believed in his goal to serve his community as State Representative, he worked hard, and he won the election. He pledged to fight to make this community a better place than it is today, and to work hard every day to serve everyone in his district. “Set your goals high, work hard, play by the rules, and you will achieve,” he encouraged the audience. He then gave everyone a challenge: What can you do today? What can each of us do today, and every day, to help and to serve? “Little things add up to big change. Together, we can be great!” Wittenberg said.

TERRIFIC STEP TEAM!

One of the most impressive presentations of the day came from the Step Team, a group of young men from Einstein, Key, and Pepper Elementary Schools. In unison, they stepped, danced, and demonstrated outstanding talent as well as remarkable confidence. The commitment, hours of practice, discipline, and dedication was unmistakable as these young men offered an energetic performance, directed by Mr. Nathaniel Williams.

“THE POWER OF ONE”

Ms. Lorna J. Williams, author of Black Butterfly, read her poems “The Power of One” and “The Art of Giving”, affirming the power of each person doing what you can, individually and collectively.

STUDENTS AND STAFF PERFORM TOGETHER

One of the most inspiring aspects of Oak Park’s celebration is that they included students at all grade levels, as well as staff members. From tiny kindergarteners from the 3D Dance Academy at Einstein with the girls in full tutus and gold leotards and the little boy in a gold and white suit, dancing to “Who Would Imagine A King” to the Oak Park High School Jazz Band, Marching Band, and Praise Team, each school had a part in the celebration. The staff also took part in the program, demonstrating the skills they teach their students every day. Choral Director Ms. Demetria Washington was a soloist in the Oak Park High School Marching Band’s “Praise is What I Do”, entering the stage from the side with a powerful voice that touched the heart of the audience. Mr. Kenneth Gill, Director of the Jazz Band, not only led the band in their presentation; he played a solo. As he played, a family feeling among the band was evident. The support and respect the students have for Mr. Gill was evident in their eyes as they watched him play. Each person shared their talents, doing what they can, individually and collectively.

A NERVOUS STUDENT, A CARING PRINCIPAL, A SUPPORTIVE AUDIENCE, AND SUCCESS: THE MEASURE OF A MAN
An unplanned demonstration of this theme happened during the program. Two Pepper Elementary students were selected to share their favorite quote by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr, and explain what it means to them. The first student, Chandler Wourman-Townsend, came out and confidently presented her prepared speech. A young man, Ibrahim-Said Ryan Toure was next. He chose “The Measure of a Man”, and after the first words, forgot the rest of his speech. How many of us have done that at some point in our lives? As the audience waited, sending him encouraging words and applause, Ibrahim tried to remember, but ended up in tears at the podium. Immediately, Mr. Emanuel Haley, the principal of Pepper School, went to Ibrahim’s side, embraced him, and comforted him. Mr. Haley’s compassion, kindness, and caring heart shone through this unexpected situation. He shared with the audience that Ibrahim had inadvertently lost his speech in the snow, and was worried that he would forget the words, but promised Mr. Haley he would do his best. Ibrahim went off stage for a moment, spoke with Mr. Haley, then returned to the stage, and confidently recited every word of the quote and what it means to him perfectly, flawlessly. The support of his principal, the encouragement of the audience, and the strength Ibrahim possessed within him all worked together to help this young man shine. The quote he chose to share by Dr. King was, “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.” In this situation, Mr. Haley showed what an outstanding man he is, and Ibrahim showed what an outstanding man he is becoming.

KEEPER OF THE PROMISE: MS. CHARITY JONES!
A traditional part of Oak Park’s annual Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. celebration is the presentation of the Keeper of the Promise Award. This prestigious award is given to a staff member who has demonstrated outstanding dedication, leadership, community service, and commitment to students in the Oak Park School District. This year’s recipient was Charity Jones, Assistant Principal of Oak Park High School. She was described as hardworking, loyal, and honest. She is a devoted employee and gives countless hours to the Oak Park School District. Ms. Jones is a passionate leader who believes all students should have an equal opportunity to learn, and makes sure all students are treated fairly. She consistently demonstrates a commitment to excellence, effective leadership, and a climate of growth. In her speech, Ms. Jones said, “The service I do is for students, but I do not do it alone. It takes all of us working together to make a difference in this world.”

Oak Park Winterfest Was Fun For Everyone!

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     If you know me, you  know that I am not a fan of winter.  Not.  One.  Bit.  It’s cold, there’s ice, there’s snow, driving is a  pain, and pretty much all I like about it is that it gives me an excuse to stay home and write, read, play with the dogs, or clean the house.   However, I knew Winterfest would be a great day filled with fun activities and great people, so on January 25, 2015, I bundled up and went.  It was the best decision ever!!

IF ONLY WE HAD WINTERFEST 30 YEARS AGO!

We had lots of great activities when I was a kid, growing up in Oak Park.  The pool, miniature golf, the ice arena, Tot-Lot, the playgrounds, the park, and so much more.  But did I do anything during the winter except sled on the hill and check out books from the library?  Probably, but not that I can remember.  If we had Winterfest back then, it would definitely have been memorable!  There was something for everyone, every age, every interest. 

.193      Kids and adults gathered to enjoy toasting marshmallows

169Watching the ice carving was fascinating; how does he DO that?

166           There were even horse-drawn carriage rides!

200  Everyone loves the llamas…but I’m not so sure that llama loved me.  Is it just me, or does that llama look suspicious?  Maybe if I had given him some food, he would have been friendlier..

164     There were bunnies to hold, and other animals to feed and visit.

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Winterfest participants were also invited to skate at the ice arena for free, and of course the hill was a busy place all day!

Since it was a cold January day, however, we needed to warm up inside from time to time.  When I went in the Community Center, I was amazed at the wide variety of activities there.  And, just like the events going on outside, everything at Winterfest was FREE!

We were treated to entertainment by the extremely talented students in the Oak Park School District at all levels.  Take a look:

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161       There was also free chili and hot chocolate for everyone!

157        Dawn Sketch of the Oak Park Arts and Cultural Commission prepared some fun art activities for the kids.

170                   The balloon lady was super popular all day.

180        Representatives from the Recycling Committee were also available to provide information and materials to residents.

205202          It was a great day for Oak Park families.

If you missed it this year, you won’t want to miss it next year!  And Summerfest is coming August 8-9, 2015 – I hope to see everyone there!!

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Welcome to Oak Park Connections!

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WELCOME TO OUR NEW INTERACTIVE BLOG COMMUNITY

Oak Park Connections is an idea I’ve had for a long time… you know how whenever two or more Oak Parkers meet, no matter where we are, we always find a connection?  We might have a mutual friend, we might have both gone to the Pepper Playground as kids, we might have lived a couple blocks away from each other 30 years ago, we might have both been in the Summer Reading Program at the Oak Park Library, or we might have both loved the whitefish on Sunday nights at Hoa Kow…but there is always a connection. Always!

JUST LIKE THE WONDER YEARS?!

My best friend lives in Toronto, and she always says that Oak Park is like living in The Wonder Years; it’s this idyllic place that everyone who grew up here loves, a small town in which it feels like everyone knows everyone else, and we are  very sentimental about our childhood.   I laughed when she first told me this, but I think she’s right…I wouldn’t trade my life here for anything in the world.  (Okay, a little warm weather right now would be nice, but…!)

Many of the people we knew years ago have moved to other (warmer!) places now, but the memories of Oak Park and the connections remain.    And for those of us who still live here, it’s still a phenomenal place to live, to work, to learn, to shop, to eat, and to meet new people.

That’s why I started this blog.

WHAT IS THIS BLOG ABOUT?

I just retired, and for the first time since I was a teenager, I have the time and the opportunity to be a part of activities in Oak Park again.   I am learning so much and having so much fun!  The Oak Park School District is filled with talented kids, supportive parents, amazing teachers, and excellent leadership.  I want to share that with you.

The City of Oak Park has an amazing variety of events every week, and most of them are free!  Just in the last week, I learned about stations in this area along the Underground Railroad, about Coretta Scott King’s life, and how all of us could be a part of improving our community.  It begins with the children, and it begins with us, but I will share more about that later.

ART CLASSES, LIBRARY EVENTS, AND SO MUCH MORE!

I signed up for a free two-session art workshop to create a mosaic at Universal Stained Glass, along with my mom, a friend, and the Mayor of Oak Park.  How cool will that be?!  Come and join us – I think there are still some spaces available!

This week kids can go to the Oak Park Library and read with a cute canine for company.  And there’s so much more!  Did you go to Winterfest?  It was awesome, and I’ll share that in an upcoming post.  Summerfest is coming in August – you won’t want to miss it!!

YOUR TURN! 

Now it’s your turn…………….I am hoping this blog will grow into an interactive community, beginning today.  What is your favorite memory of Oak Park?  What did you like best about growing up here or living here?  What do you like best about Oak Park now, whether you still live here or moved away but visit occasionally.

What do you want to know more about?  My plan is to write about the great things happening in the schools, in the city, and in the businesses of Oak Park.  Do you know of a business in Oak Park that is awesome?  Especially one that many of us might not know about?  I also want to spotlight residents of Oak Park.  Do you know someone who has lived here a long time and would be willing to be interviewed for Oak Park Connections?

PLEASE BOOKMARK ME!

I will be adding a new post every day for the next week or so, and then 2-4 posts each week, so please bookmark this page and check in every day.

SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS

Share your comments with me (please keep in mind that kids will be reading this blog too) here or email me at oakparkconnections@gmail.com